2023 May Articles

Going on a diet? Think twice…

While the idea of going on a diet might seem appealing to many people who want to lose weight quickly, the truth is that most diets are not sustainable or healthy in the long term. In fact, they can do more harm than good to our bodies.

One of the biggest dangers of diets is that they often eliminate entire food groups, which can lead to nutrient deficiencies. For example, low-carb diets may restrict fruit and whole grains, essential sources of vitamins, minerals, and fibre. Low-fat diets may eliminate healthy fats, such as avocados and nuts, which are essential for brain health and reducing inflammation.

Diets can also cause an unhealthy relationship with food. The restriction and deprivation of certain foods can lead to binge eating and feelings of guilt and shame, which can ultimately lead to an unhealthy cycle of yo-yo dieting.

Yo-yo dieting, also known as weight cycling, is a common pattern among dieters who lose weight quickly and then regain it just as fast. This can have negative consequences on our health, such as an increased risk of heart disease, type 2 diabetes, and depression.

Instead of going on diets, we should focus on developing sustainable, long-term healthy eating patterns that include a variety of nutrient-dense foods. This means eating plenty of fruits and vegetables, whole grains, healthy fats, and lean protein.

We can also try to avoid junk food as much as possible as they are often high in inflammatory ingredients such as sugar, refined carbohydrates, and unhealthy fats. Chronic inflammation can contribute to a range of health problems, including depression, anxiety, and brain fog, which further demotivate you and your long-term health goals.

It’s important to remember that healthy eating is not about perfection but rather about balance and moderation. It’s okay to indulge in our favourite treats occasionally as long as we prioritise healthy foods the majority of the time.

We should celebrate our bodies and focus on developing healthy eating patterns that nourish our bodies and minds. Let’s ditch the diets and embrace a balanced approach to food that promotes overall health and well-being.

Reach out to a Dietician or Biokineticist at LifeAssist for assistance with an eating and exercise plan that works for you. The service is at no cost to you. Call us now, we are waiting to hear from you.

2023-05-01T10:42:30+00:00

Supporting your teenager through depression

Teenagers are facing an increasing number of stressors in their lives, including the pressures of social media, academic stress, and the challenges of navigating relationships with their peers. These stressors can contribute to depression, anxiety, and suicidal ideation or self-harm.

The South African Depression and Anxiety Group (SADAG) has reported a worrying increase in teenage suicide and self-harm in recent years. According to their statistics, suicide is the third leading cause of death among teenagers, and more than 20% of teenagers in South Africa have seriously considered attempting suicide.

It is important to be aware of the signs of depression and suicidal ideation or self-harm. Some of the signs to look out for include:

  1.     Changes in behaviour: Suddenly becomes withdrawn or stops participating in activities that they used to enjoy
  2.     Changes in sleep patterns: Is sleeping more than usual or has trouble sleeping
  3.     Changes in eating habits: Suddenly loses or gains weight, this could be a sign of depression or an eating disorder
  4.     Low self-esteem: Is constantly putting themselves down or has a negative view of themselves
  5.     Talking about suicide or self-harm: If your teenager talks about wanting to hurt themselves or mentions suicide

If you notice any of these signs, it’s important to take action and seek help for your teen as soon as possible.

As a parent, you can also help by creating an open and supportive environment where they feel comfortable and safe talking about their feelings without being judged. Set aside regular time to talk or engage in activities together that they enjoy.

You can also encourage your teen to take care of their physical health by eating well, exercising regularly, and getting enough sleep. Limiting their time on social media and encouraging them to spend time in nature or engaging in other relaxing activities can also help to reduce stress.

Treatment options for depression and anxiety can include counselling, medication and lifestyle changes, or a combination thereof. With the right support, it is possible for teenagers to overcome these challenges and develop the skills and strategies they need to thrive.

Connect with a LifeAssist counsellor and discuss your options to help you and your family navigate the issues at hand. Counselling is available for eligible employees and their dependents, including children over 13 years of age, through LifeAssist.

2023-05-01T10:39:00+00:00

Improve your relationship with Money… here’s how

Did you know: your relationship with money could be the root of your money problems? You could be your own worst enemy. Our self-esteem, friends, upbringing by our parents, and more influence our feelings, attitudes, and, ultimately, relationship with money. Sometimes it’s positive, but sometimes it’s not.

Having a healthy relationship with your money means understanding how money and spending work for you. It means you learn from these insights and apply better ways to think, feel and act when making financial decisions. Here are some ways to improve your relationship with money:

Know your Weak Spots

Are you an emotional spender? It can be helpful to know what feelings drive you to hit the shops. For example, if you have an argument with your family, you may feel better if you buy yourself something nice. Be aware of these triggers and replace them with healthier behaviour other than shopping.

Value Yourself

Sometimes we spend on things we can’t afford to impress other people. It makes us feel better about ourselves in the short term, but in the end, we feel worse because we overspent. Tell yourself you are worth more than the type of clothes you wear or the things you possess. Valuing yourself as a person will make you feel strong and empowered to stick to your spending plan.

Ditch the Denial

Sometimes it’s easier to deny a problem than to face it up front. But long-term denial can make us feel ashamed and stressed as our financial situation worsens. It’s better to face the truth and tackle your financial problems head-on. Taking responsibility for the problem is the first step toward a solution.

Have a Good Money Attitude

A positive money mindset is worth a lot. Maybe you’re thankful for a job that provides you with an income. Being grateful for what you already have could help you to buy less stuff to make you happy.  Let go of regret about financial decisions in the past. Learn from your mistakes and focus on a better future.

Stop trying to Keep Up

Comparison is toxic. Maybe you have spendy friends and feel pressured to fit in by spending more than you can afford. Maybe your neighbours love showing off flashy purchases, and you feel left out. Avoid resentful thoughts like “It isn’t fair!” or “It must be nice.” Surround yourself with friends who generally share your financial outlook and values. Remind yourself to focus on yourself and stick to your spending plan.

Be Kind to Yourself

It’s okay if you don’t change things overnight. Good money habits can take years to build. Have grace with yourself if you make mistakes. Continue to take small steps every day toward financial freedom

Call LifeAssist to speak to a financial coach to further improve your relationship with money.

2023-05-01T10:30:48+00:00

DECISION FATIGUE: The Disadvantage of Too Much Choice

What exactly is decision fatigue?

Struggling with ‘brain fog’, tiredness, indecision, or anxiety?

The real culprit could be decision fatigue; a real (and rather debilitating) phenomenon that prevents us from making good decisions when we’re tired or overwhelmed. Typically such mental fatigue occurs when we are required to make too many decisions too quickly, decreasing our ability to make sound choices and often leading to procrastination, impulsivity and poor judgement.

Although having choices is good, decision fatigue often occurs as a negative consequence of simply having too many options, leading to increased stress levels and decreased cognitive resources.

Cognitive resources are our ability to think, reason, and resolve issues. The sheer mental effort of making many decisions in a short space of time diminishes these resources.  If we’re overwhelmed by too many choices, our natural ability to make good decisions can dwindle significantly.

Let’s consider these examples:

It is good to have choices, and it is a privilege to be able to make decisions. But, you risk becoming decision-fatigued when you have many choices and/or need to make a decision under pressure, or when you are mentally tired.

We can all relate to this in the context of shopping. You’ve been in the store for a while and are presented with so many options that you don’t know which one to choose. You become overwhelmed and find it harder to select the correct or appropriate item. You might become impulsive, buy something you don’t need, or give up entirely and leave the store without purchasing anything.

Or, in a leadership role, you are called on daily to make many decisions – some that have business implications (financial or operational), and others that relate to the team, or individuals.

So, can we avoid decision fatigue?

To some extent, we can prevent it. The key is to manage your decision-making and minimise the number of choices you face. For example:

Famous individuals such as Mark Zuckerberg and Barack Obama claim to have worn the same or similar types of outfits each day to limit the number of decisions they needed to make. You, too, could consider wearing a ‘uniform’ for work.

To make shopping easier, you can create a standard online grocery shopping list.

Avoid the “What’s for dinner?” challenge by implementing a weekday meal plan. You can even make entertaining less stressful by serving your ‘signature dish’ when you entertain friends and family – a meal you feel confident making because you know it is always enjoyed.

When you need to make values-based decisions, it is helpful to have clear boundaries to minimise moral dilemmas that might arise – e.g., decide how you respond to requests for donations or loans upfront.

In preparation for requests for work or social engagements, you can determine how you spend your time upfront.  So, when that invitation comes for something that doesn’t quite fit your plan, you can feel at ease to decline – freeing yourself from people-pleasing obligations.

Here are some tips to resolve issues effectively:

  • Prioritise your decisions

Limit the decisions you make by cautiously looking at the merit of each one – slowly and carefully. Make sure you tackle the decision-making process by first addressing the highest priority issues and then solving the rest. For non-urgent decisions, it is okay to ask people to wait – “Not now. Give me [some time] to get back to you on this.”

  • Take breaks

Take regular breaks during the day to rest your mind from constant decision-making. You will then be able to revisit a problem with fresh eyes and a restored outlook.

  • Make informed decisions

More complex decisions deserve focused attention. Set aside time to make informed decisions – gather information, consult with others, and consider the ‘up and down sides’ (benefits and consequences).  You will feel more confident to activate decisions when you can justify the reasoning – finding it easier to make resolutions, stick to them, and avoid mental fatigue.

  • Have an action plan

Often, one decision leads to another. If a decision requires implementation, you will need an activation plan.

  • Set deadlines

Set reasonable deadlines for making decisions and schedule these for when you are most mentally alert. Doing this will help you stay on track and avoid procrastination.

  • Seek sound advice

Remember, feeling depleted after a marathon of mental activity and decision-making is normal. At this stage, the best decision you can make is to practise self-care and choose to prioritise your mental and physical wellbeing.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, seek advice from a trusted, reliable source that can help you to make the right choices and determine the best course of action.

If you are struggling to make important decisions that relate to you or your family, you can seek guidance from a LifeAssist counsellor at no cost to you, your life partner, or any other household dependent.

2023-05-01T10:33:13+00:00
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