Helping Your Child Cope with Stress during the COVID-19 Pandemic
Babies born in 2020 are growing up in a strange world none of us could have imagined a year before. For these little ones, isolation and social distancing are normal, family gatherings happen online, and the few adults they do meet in person wear face masks. This will definitely affect their social and emotional development as they grow.
Young children are also feeling the mental and emotional effects of the pandemic, with higher levels of stress, major disruptions to their school schedules and changes to their routines at home.
Our children need extra support and comfort from those who care for them during this scary and unpredictable time.
Signs Your Child is Stressed
Here are a few signs that your toddler or child is feeling upset by the stresses of the pandemic:
- Increased crying and irritability.
- Changes in eating or sleeping habits.
- Returning to “younger” behaviours (like bed-wetting or thumb-sucking).
- Increased worry and anxiety.
- Difficulty concentrating.
- Struggling with schoolwork or avoiding schoolwork.
- Losing interest in fun hobbies and activities.
How You Can Help
If your child is struggling, here are some tips to relieve their anxiety and help them cope.
- Children are often frightened by things they don’t understand. Talk to them about what’s going on, and answer their questions in a way they can understand.
- Let them know it’s okay for them to feel scared or upset.
- Reassure them that they are safe and you (and the other adults in their life) will look after them.
- Set a positive example by looking after yourself too.
- Limit your family’s exposure to the news, including coverage on TV and social media.
- Try to stick to a regular routine, with a balance between learning activities and fun/ relaxation activities.
- Spend fun time together as a family, playing a sport, enjoying a board game, reading together or building a puzzle.
These are difficult times, so make sure you take care of your family’s mental wellbeing as well as your physical health.