How you get on with co-workers are just as important to your work and career success as how you do your job. Having good relationships at work makes you a happier, more productive and more adaptable worker. Here are some tips to build and maintain better relationships with colleagues.
1. Develop and strengthen relationships
Make time to connect with people at work, to talk and to get to know them better. A quick chat over a cup of tea, a monthly meal with colleagues, or sharing lunch across the desk shows you are interested and you care, and validates people.
2. Be positive
A positive attitude is one of the most contagious things in the world. Positive and upbeat people attract others and lighten the mood in the office. Being positive also means refraining from complaining – stay focused on the positives and avoid any negativity. Also cultivate relationships with others that have a similar attitude.
3. Avoid gossiping
Very rarely will discussing colleagues lead to anything positive or have a good outcome; gossip leads only to distrust. Don’t start gossip, and if others gossip, try to change the subject or walk away. If you are involved in conflict with someone, sort it out with them directly and don’t discuss any aspect of the situation with anyone else.
4. Appreciate others
Always express and show others that you appreciate their help and support. Be genuine in complimenting others on their successes.
5. Be a good listener
An unknown author pointed out that ‘silent’ and ‘listen’ are spelt with the same letters. Truly listen to and hear what others say to your or tell you. You will not only understand them and their situation better, but also gain their respect and trust.
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wellnessatwork.com.au
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