It can be tempting to select a roommate based on how friendly the person is, but you’re better off knowing how compatible you’ll be when sharing the same living space day in and day out.

 

Here is a list of suggestions to help you share your living space harmoniously.

 

Compare your daily habits

 

    • Does the prospective roommate have enough money to cover the bills?

 

    • Is he/she an early riser or night owl?

 

    • How much TV does he/she watch?

 

    • What are the roommate’s political, cultural or religious views?

 

    • When should one roommate worry if the other is not home at a certain time?

 

    • Is he/she sensitive to fragrances and/or odours? This may affect what you choose as cleaning products etc.

 

    • How messy or clean does the person keep his/her space? Does he/she understand the importance of getting the dishes done and rubbish taken out?

 

    • Does the person smoke or do any other kind of recreational drugs?

 

    • What kind of personality does this person have, is he/she an extrovert or an introvert?

 

    • What kind of music and TV shows does he/she enjoy? Moreover, does he/she prefer loud music and a blaring TV?

 

Rules

 

    • Write down rules that both you and your prospective roommate agree to and both sign a copy. Don’t be too rigid. Dirty windows never hurt anyone and a broken plate should not ruin a friendship

 

    • Control the amount of noise you make. Wear headphones when you listen to music, and go into another room when on the phone. If you’re going to engage in a noisy activity, ask your roommate beforehand

 

    • Be careful about lending money

 

    • Decide what to share. For example, state what contents in the fridge are off limits, and if you borrow something, let your roommate know and (if necessary) replace it

 

    • Divide responsibilities. If your roommate is a good cook and you’re not, have him/her cook and you do the dishes

 

    • Set up a chores schedule. Take turns cleaning the bathroom, taking out the rubbish, etc

 

    • Follow the Golden Rule. Treat your roommate as you’d like to be treated.

 

Communicate
If there’s a problem, talk about it right away. If you simply cannot communicate openly and there’s tension all the time, find a new roommate. You may be better friends if you choose to live separately.

 

Sources
http://blog.checkfloor.com
http://collegelife.about.com
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